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Regrettably, Joseph wasn't an excellent mediator. He would just as soon let's fight it out like a couple of teenager pitbulls than attempt to make peace between us. He was an incredibly self- absorbed individual. I'm sure the notion of his best buddy and his girlfriend made him feel as though Stella, after she got her groove again.
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