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I understand when I allow before I've established intimacy relationships to progress to sex, I am cheating myself. Intimacy grows slowly, and couples who have been married for more than twenty years will typically agree that they have a much greater comprehension of their spouses when they were married, even if they grew up together today than they did. This intimacy is like an oak tree; it proceeds growing for its whole life, provided that you nourish and water it.
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